My Experience in Enlightened Warrior Training Camp 2, 2009

Dear friends,

I would like to share some of my experience to the recent EWTC by T. Harv Eker in Kuala Rompin, Malaysia.

This event gave me an understanding of the life of a True Warrior. I'm not going to share on the details of the event but rather my own learning and experience.

I am so blessed to have the chance to meet alot of wonderful people in the event. Thank you all for your support and love.

I have learned to give and to receive support without any hesitation. Life in not just about me. I am here to serve others and I believe I have a higher purpose or mission in my life. I choose to balance my life in terms of family, love, financially & health. I live my life to the fullest everyday, not wasting every single second as life is too short to live. So, just enjoy every moment of it.

I commit myself to put it my full effort in every task I do. I will not settle for a mediocre life. All of us have a special or unique talent that needs to be fully unleashed. Hence, I do eveything at 100% without any reservation or procrastination.

I am more presence in my daily activities and connected to other like minded people. I am more alert to responding to situations happening in my life. Our decisions affects every outcome or result. Presence and listening to what other people saying is important.

Most of all, I found out there are many loving souls out there who are willing to share their love and give us a helping hand. This event is a life changing camp which I highly recommend it.

Lastly, I would like to thank my lead trainer of the event, Ms Marjean Holden for the great performance. Marjean, you are awesome!!! And to all co-trainers and staffs, a big thank you.

To all my readers out there, I hope to send out a message that life is beautiful and treasure every moment of it. Till we meet again, with love...

3 Simple Steps To Achieving Greater Success In Life

We, as humans tend to live the life which are controlled by our environment. When times are bad or when we reflect back our life, we will blame everything except ourselves. For example, I am not successful because I don't have the money, I don't have the knowledge/ skill, I don't have the time, and the list goes on.

What I'm going to share with you today is not to change you, but rather about becoming your true self. The more you know about yourself, the easier it will be for you to achieve what you want and to be fulfilled.

We break this down into 3 simple steps or rather 3 questions we must answer:
1. What stops us from moving forward? Taking Action? Being at our best?
2. What controls and determines the quality of our lives?
3. Why do we do what we do? What are the ultimate drives behind all human action?

So, what stops us from moving forward? The answer is FEAR.
Fear can destroy our psycology and immobilize us from taking action. All of us experience fear in some context during our lives or feel a combination of these fears over the course of our lives. We cannot deny or escape from fear. The secret is learning how to use fear instead of letting fear use you! We dance with fear rather than fight fear.
There are two primary fears that all human beings share:
a) Not being Enough
b) Not being Loved

What controls and determines the quality of our lives? The answer is EMOTIONS.
The meanings we associate to the things in our lives, which are shaped by our own psycology and our world view is what controls our lives. We may define it as the beliefs and values that we have created. For example, two people may experience the same event, where on person thinks of the negative side, and someone else on the other hand thinks of the positive side. The perpetual difference not only affects the quality of each person's life, but what action they will take next.
Once meaning is established, each individual will have a pattern of emotions that they associate to this meaning as their natural way of responding.
All meanings are driven by our individual patterns of emotions and all of us have patterns of emotions. (I will share the three primary patterns of emotion on another part)

Why do we do what we do? The answer is our 6 HUMAN NEEDS.
Some questions we ask, "Why do human beings do the things they do? What creates a Nelson Mandela or a Charles Manson? A Unabomber or a Martin Luther King?"
No matter who you are in the world, there is a common force that is driving and shaping our emotions and actions. It determines the quality of our lives, and ultimately, our destinies.
The universal force is human need. Although each of us is a unique and special soul, we are all wired in very much the same way.
There are six human needs, Certainty, Uncertainty/ Variety, Significance, Connection, Growth and Contribution. These are the fundamental drives within each one of us that compel us forward in a quest to experience a life of meaning.
As Ralph Waldo Emerson said, "What lies before us, what lies behind us, is nothing compared to what lies within us."

Dreams Came True for A Young Kid - Awesome!

This is very touching for a young kid to have her dream come true... She got great vocal & talent...

Getting Started

Thank you for visting my first blog post... This is a great step for me to start registering my own blog & posting it... Yes!!!

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